A Citizen, and a Pike

What does it mean to be a citizen?  Vote?  Pay Taxes?  Yes, and yes, but that's not the entirety of it.

Well, in the simplest terms, I believe that a good citizen is someone who works to benefit the community around them.

Oh wait.....that's also how I would define a good Pike.  Good citizens, and good Pikes:

Volunteer at Community events (like the Columbus Marathon).

Participate in student philanthropies (like the Rivalry Run and Walk a Mile in Her Shoes)

Those shoes really hurt.....

And, as far as a fraternal community is concerned, a good citizen is a friend, and a brother.  And in my opinion I am in good company with some of the best citizens I know.

In Review...

So last week we had a panel of Greek Life big-wigs (I mean that in an affectionate way, I'm not being a cynic lol) and they took questions and shared with us some defining moments and Greek to Greek advice that they've come to realize in their college careers.  So what did I take away from this presentation?  Let's review:

One thing that stuck out to me was when my own brother, Zack Rubin-McCarry, shared a little grain of wisdom.  Zack told the class about how he was our chapter president, and then when he ran again, he wasn't reelected to the position.  I wasn't in the chapter at this time, but I've heard about this from other brothers.  But I never heard Zack's thoughts and feelings about the whole thing, so I'm glad he decided to share.  Basically, he didn't take his loss in the election as a setback, but more so as a challenge and an opportunity.  He reevaluated himself and his priorities and channelled his time and energy into other outlets.  And look at the guy today.  I could call Brother Rubin-McCarry a lot of things, but a "failure" is certainly not one of them.  Being the President of IFC is kind of.......awesome to put it bluntly.  So I'm going to take away from his experience.  Pike's elections are coming up, and I may have been nominated for a position or two.  I'm going to put forth my best effort in the elections, but hey if it wasn't meant to be, than that's just fine.  I'm simply going to continue working to benefit Pi Kappa Alpha, titles or no titles.  The title that appears on the business card should not define the name that comes after it.  Zack didn't need to be "President Rubin-McCarry" to be seen as a leader, so I'm not going to restrict myself either.

Another awesome snippet of advice that was shared was "get excited".  Seriously!  Come on!  We go to the greatest school in the nation, and we are all part of an amazing community.  And we only have 4 (or 5, or 6) years to really be a part of it all.  (Yes, you're a member of your organization for life, but the college experience is certainly not a life-long one).  What's not to be excited about here, huh!?!?

I had a great high school experience.  Seriously, it was great.  But my one complaint is that it went by way too fast.  Before I knew it, it was over.  I'm determined not to let that happen when I leave OSU.  I try to appreciate the little things, and make as many friendships and memories as I can here.  10 years from now, it's the things that we didn't do that we'll regret.  Not the things that we did do (and with gusto, I might add).  I still have a little over 2 years here, and I'm gonna make em' count.  Excitement!

Greek Life!  Huzzah!

See ya at Mirror Lake tonight :)

Oathmeal

Oath?  A one word blog prompt?  Well, I don't really know how to go about addressing this one.  How about a real-world example?  This is 100% real guys, and I'm pretty sure it's 100% hilarious.  Don't believe me?  Then consult the official "Santa Claus Oath" website: http://santaclausoath.webs.com/

I will seek knowledge to be well versed in the mysteries of bringing Christmas cheer and good will to all the people that I encounter in my journeys and travels.

I shall be dedicated to hearing the secret dreams of both children and adults.

I understand that the true and only gift I can give, as Santa, is myself.

I acknowledge that some of the requests I will hear will be difficult and sad. I know in these difficulties there lies an opportunity to bring a spirit of warmth, understanding and compassion.

I know the "real reason for the season" and know that I am blessed to be able to be a part of it.

I realize that I belong to a brotherhood and will be supportive, honest and show fellowship to my peers.

I promise to use "my" powers to create happiness, spread love and make fantasies come to life in the true and sincere tradition of the Santa Claus Legend.

I pledge myself to these principles as a descendant of St. Nicholas the gift giver ofMyra.

-Phillip L. Wenz

Yes.  This is real.  But you know what?   As outlandish or certifiable as this might be, it's kind of cool to see a group of people (600 Santas and their respective Mrs. Clauses) be so extremely passionate about something that they make an oath to their "craft" if you will.  An oath that lasts the rest of their lives!  That's an important thing to note: an oath goes beyond a mere obligation, because an oath is lifelong, and relative to a lifelong passion.  That in my mind is first and foremost what Oath is to me.  Yes it's a promise, but it is a promise rooted in passion.  If that passion is building men of intellect and integrity, like Pi Kappa Alpha, then swear to it.  If that passion is serving the general public morally and rightly as, say, a doctor or a police officer, then swear to it.  If that passion is "hearing the secret dreams of both children and adults" and making "fantasies come to life in the true and sincere tradition of the Santa Claus Legend", well damn, just swear to it!

And don't break that oath.  It happens all too often in Greek life.  You don't hear about Santa acting in poor character (Billy Bob Thornton excluded).  Santa made an oath and he's sticking by it; the least we can do is work to stick by the promises we made.  Or else we don't have anything to look forward to except coals in our stockings next month.

P.S.  On the coat of arms above, all of the symbols mean something.  Much like Greek Chapters' crests.  And I think it's particularly hilarious that the two reindeer represent "designer bearded" Santas, and "real bearded" Santas, and how they must work together in unity and harmony hahaha.  Apparently the form of beard is a subject of controversy within the Santa community.  Just a little aside I thought was worth sharing.

Exposé! Lack of congruence within local fraternity!

k, so it's been a busy couple days, so now it's time for a blogging double feature.  First let's tackle the issue of how Pi Kappa Alpha and the entire Greek Community can be a little incongruent.

First of all.  Log on to YouTube.  Right now.  Do it.  DO IT NOW!  K. Once you're on YouTube, type in the word "fraternity" in the search bar.  Don't press enter or anything, just sit there and look over the suggested search results.  Pretty bleak right?

For those of you too lazy to open up a new tab and do this yourself, I will just list the results right here.

When you type in "fraternity" on YouTube you get the following (in this order!):

fraternity hazing
fraternity
fraternity war
fraternity paddling
fraternity initiation
fraternity fight

Why is it that when you type in the word "fraternity" into a search bar, the phrase "fraternity hazing" actually comes up BEFORE the word "fraternity"???  And the other hot fraternity-related search items don't exactly have positive connotations either.  "War" and "paddling"!?!?  Ridiculous!

Wait.  That's not too ridiculous after all.

Sometimes I wonder if Pike at OSU helped contribute to YouTube's prioritizing of search topics.  I've said it before, we don't haze.  But we have been known to cause a bit of a commotion in the past.  We have a history of stealing other houses' things, as well as having things in our house taken (i.e. composites, mascots etc.).  We've trash talked other institutions and in some cases been busted for it.  Which leads to awkward apologetic emails and soured inter-chapter relations.  Sometimes I wonder if it's a Pi Kappa Alpha prerequisite to be a fighter, cuz the search topic "fraternity fight" is sometimes applicable to us.  Yes brothers fight, but every once in a blue moon a confrontation within Pike may go beyond a little push-and-shove.  And that certainly isn't included in our mission statement.  Are we starting "fraternity wars"?  No, not at all.  But, I do wonder sometimes if something incidental went down between houses, Pike would be the first to cross over that line in the sand.  And I certainly don't want that, or that reputation as the "match in the gas tank".  BOOM BOOM.  Haha sorry, that's a little Pike lyric.  I just kill myself sometimes haha.  Anyway...

Another big thing is grades.  First and foremost we are students here at OSU.  We are here to get an education.  But sometimes our own personal YouTube search bars get their priorities mixed up and read something like this:

party
alcohol
girls
fraternity
gym
tan
laundry
Cane's at 2am
studying
sleep

Yikes.  With a list like that, it's no wonder our GPA's could use a little help.  We have a sort of formation process at Pike called SLAG.  It stands for Scholars Leaders Athletes Gentlemen.  I don't think I'm too far off when I say that "Scholars" comes first over the other three for a reason.  And that reason wasn't so we could make a cute little acronym.  No, the "S" is first because fraternities are open to students and scholars.  So as far as my chapter is concerned, as well as the entire Greek community- people need to be bumping up "studying" in their search bars.

I think the above, and a little of what I had mentioned in my previous post are what I would consider most incongruent within our community.  And all of this isn't beyond fixing.  Some of this just takes a simple change of perspective and a little re-prioritizing.  We're Greek.  We say we are capable of some pretty awesome things, so let's stop talking and start walking.  Take this for example:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c5CqE3rPxEY

This is an act called "Fighting Gravity".  They were competitors on America's Got Talent.  They are college students at Virginia Tech.  And they are all fraternity brothers.  (They're Pikes. Sorry, I can't help but brag a little).  Anyway, the thing I like most about this video is at the end, when one of the judges asks "Who are you?"  And the one guy answers "We're Fraternity brothers".  And the crowd goes nuts.  He didn't even specify which fraternity, or whatnot.  The audience was simply blown away (as was I) and America got to see what kind of creativity and dedication fraternities are capable of producing.  It might sound crazy, but I think Fighting Gravity is winning major points for Greeks across the nation, and they are certainly combating some of the stigma that surrounds us.

I live for that day when people will log on to YouTube and type in the word "fraternity" and the list will be as follows:

fraternity
fraternity brothers
fraternity scholars
fraternity leaders
fraternity athletes
fraternity gentlemen
fraternity service
fraternity philanthropy
fraternity housing
fraternity involvement

and finally.....ah hell.....why not? ;-)

fraternity party (to celebrate "fraternity accomplishment").

Our Leadership Initiative

Hey all,

so my group and I (Sam C., Chelsea, and Eli) have hit the ground running with our initiative.  Last night some fliers were distributed to a majority of the houses, I sent out a mass email to all of my UIFI/BGLI connections, and Sharrell has emailed our proposal to every chapter's president, and chapter advisor.  So hopefully you've heard about this.  If not, here goes:

We feel that the off-campus area isn't the safest.  Especially at night.  So we are going to collaborate as a Greek Community here and make stuff happen.  On Thursday, we are hosting Captain Dave Rose of the OSU Police Department, where he will make a presentation on ways we can combat and prevent crime in the area, and also update us on current crime trends.  The event will be at 8pm, at the Pike house (141 East 15th).  ALL are encouraged to attend.  If you can't make it, please be sure that you have at least one delegate from your chapter in attendance.

And this is just step one of our initiative.  We are going to take this to the next level....cuz we're awesome.